Step 1: Know the Key Traditions to Keep
You don’t have to do it all, but you must do it well. Here are the cultural elements you shouldn’t skip:
- The Traditional Wedding (a.k.a. the real wedding): This is the heart of Nigerian nuptials. Pick a date and make it matter.
- Introduction Ceremony: Even if virtual, families must “meet.”
- Bride Price & Family Protocols: Respect the culture. Document it meaningfully.
- Aso-Ebi Distribution: Even your friends in Texas or London want to rep you in style.
Step 2: Find a Trusted Planner in Nigeria
Let’s be honest. You need someone on ground who gets it. Who knows the vendors, understands the culture, and can deliver glam without drama. (That’s where Events by B&C FABs comes in — we’re your eyes and ears here in Naija.)
Step 3: Blend Modern With Traditional
Have your white wedding at a vineyard in Italy? Sure. Just make sure the reception playlist still features Burna, Ayra Starr, and maybe one gospel banger to please the aunties. Think fusion.
Some couples even fly in alagas (traditional MCs) or cultural dancers to bring that Naija spice.
Step 4: Logistics are Queen
- Use group chats (WhatsApp or Telegram) for wedding comms
- Digitize your IVs and coordinate Aso-ebi styles with a shared Google Drive
- Ship souvenir packs in advance if possible
- Have someone coordinate your Naija guests so they feel involved too
Step 5: Let Culture Tell Your Love Story
Don’t just tick boxes. Infuse your heritage. Whether it’s an Igbo bride dancing out with her girls, or a Yoruba groom kneeling before the bride’s parents — let your wedding reflect who you are, wherever you are.
Bonus Tip: Fly Home for the Turn Up
If budget allows, plan your main reception in Nigeria. Dirty December? Easter? Pick a high-energy season and let the vibes be unmatched.
Need help making your Naija wedding dreams come true — even from miles away? Contact us at www.eventsbybncfabs.com. With us, home is just one phone call away.
